UPDATES FROM DOMESTIC DISPUTE: INTERNAL BLEEDING

THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO DROPPED BY AND JOTTED DOWN THEIR THOUGHTS, SUPPORT, PEARLS OF WISDOMS TO MY CURRENT SITUATION…I WILL GET BACK TO EACH AND ONE OF YOU INDIVIDUALLY WHEN I HAVE THE TIME. STILL NO INTERNET ACCESS AT HOME…

LAST FRIDAY MORNING (14/10/2008) -JUST AS I WAS ABOUT TO HAVE A BATH TO GET READY FOR WORK FOUND OUT I WAS BLEEDING (THE EXACT TIME AS I HAD MY PREVIOUS MARRIAGE). SO RUSHED TO ROYAL PERTH HOSPITAL -THEY REFERRED ME TO KING EDWARD. HUBBY’S OF COURSE ELSEWHERE (BACKPACKERS. HAD BEEN SO SINCE THE LAST HE WAS ESCORTED BY THE POLICE). SO HAD TO TAXI’D ALONE 6AM IN THE MORNING.

I WAS BLEEDING LIKE THE RED SEA. AT FIRST THEY HAD TOLD ME THAT THERE WAS A 70% I HAD LOST THE BABY. BUT THEN AFTER WAITING AROUND (3 HOURS) FOR THE ULTRA SOUND AND MANY TESTS LATER -THEY COULD STILL SEE THE BABY STILL BREATHING (ALHAMDULILLAH) BUT THERE WAS QUITE A CUT INSIDE…

THEY TOLD ME TO GO HOME, TAKE PLENTY OF REST. SAID -THE BLEEDING COULD EITHER AFFECT THE BABY AND HAVE IT MISCARRIAGE OR BY THE GRACE OF ALLAH, STILL MAKE IT LIVE.

NOT SURE OF THIS ADVICE.

IF ANYONE’S EVER EXPERIENCED ANYTHING SIMILAR -COULD YOU PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT WERE MY OTHER OPTIONS (I.E. GET MEDICATION TO STOP THE INTERNAL BLEEDING?!? ETC ETC) BCOZ I’M JUST NOT SATISFIED WITH THE PRESCRIPTION.

HUBBY SEEMS TO WANT ME BACK AND NOT CONSIDER A DIVORCE BECAUSE (SO-HE-SAYS) REALLY WANTS TO BE THERE FOR THE BABY…BUT I’M NOT BUYING IT YET.

HE EVEN WANTS TO MOVE BACK IN WITH HIM ONCE HE’S FOUND A PLACE. MY FOLKS ARE SAYING A BIG NO-NO, SO DID THE SOCIAL WORKER WHO I SAW AFTER I HAD FINISHED UP WITH THE DOC AFTER SOME TALKS BUT I AM STILL THINKING ON THE DECISION.

HAVE TO GO NOW. GETTING CRAMPS AND HUBBY JUST CALLED TO MEET UP FOR DINNER TO TALK ABOUT WHERE THIS WILL GO.

TOLD HIM -WILL ONLY COME BACK AFTER AGREEING TO HAVE TALKS WITH THE IMAMS AND COUNSELLORS ABOUT HIS ACTION. HE’S NOT HAPPY ON THE IDEA BUT KNOWING WHAT HE’S LIKE -HAVE TO DO A LOT OF PERSUADING…JUST TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND THAT ITS NEVER OK TO HIT IN ANY SOCIETY, WALKS OF LIFE, SYSTEM AND MAYBE LETTER CHECK UP ON THIS CRAMP.

WILL KEEP YOU ALL POSTED.

THANKS SO MUCH EVERYONE FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND ADVICE.

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~ by nursheikha on October 20, 2008.

2 Responses to “UPDATES FROM DOMESTIC DISPUTE: INTERNAL BLEEDING”

  1. salamu alaikum honestly im really upset to hear your story it is really sad but such a true story to what happens in this world. sister u have every right to a divorce if ur relationship with this man is over.. but ur talking about deportation of him which sounds like great revenge but ur pregnant with his baby and the last thing u want is to make this man hate u or him have the child alone in egypt ur relationship with this man might be over but the child has a right to a relationship and u need to understand its the babies father and that child desrves a relatioship. but also sister u have to wait till u have had the baby before u can divorce the baby has to be born in marraige and takes its fathers name.

    honestley sister my mum has worked 15 years in domestic voilence in perth and i can ask her for advice if u need it.. so im telling u from what ive seen is it can turn nast so vengence and revenge is the last thing u should ever think of

    allah maak sister

  2. hi nursheikha, i just dropped by ur blog and thinking of leaving a comment…
    i’m very sorry for what had happend.. well.. i hope you would be strong.. because Allah will always be with those who always beleive in Him..
    i hope your baby wud be strong too…
    i shouldnt say anything about your relationship tho.. but, always refer to Allah for decision.. i would suggest solat istikharah for guidance..
    get well soon and yes, mom say: in ur condition now, u really need a lot of rest, dont do anything heavy..
    salamz!

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